Berwyn
District Civic Association (BDCA)
Meeting
Minutes
April 20, 2006
8 – 10 p.m.
i.
Statistics show that 1 in 5 kids received an online sexual
solicitation
ii.
On average, the sexual solicitor is a white male between the
ages of 25-45, living a mid- to upper-class lifestyle with professional
employment and is usually involved in children’s activities.
iii.
The average victim is early to mid teens from dysfunctional
families, discovering his/her sexuality.
The teen usually has unsupervised access to a computer.
iv.
Signs that a child may be at risk include pornography on
his/her computer, receives/sends mail or phone calls from people the parent
does not know, withdrawn from school or family and spends large amounts of time
online.
i.
Talk to your children about sexual victimization
ii.
Keep the computer in a common room, NOT in child’s room
iii.
Always maintain access to child’s accounts and randomly
check email and browser – BUT strike a balance between privacy and supervision
iv.
Determine what safeguards are utilized at school
v.
Remind your children that what they are told online might
not be true
vi.
Never arrange a face-to-face meeting with someone they do
not know
vii.
Never send pictures over the Internet
viii.
Never give out identifying information
ix.
Never respond to a message that is suggestive, obscene or
harassing.
i.
Xanga
ii.
MySpace
iii.
MyPlace
iv.
Skyblog
v.
Facebook
vi.
Friendster
i.
Ncmec.org
ii.
Netsmartz.com
iii.
Safekids.com
iv.
Wiredsafety.org
v.
Protectkids.com
vi.
Software4parents.com
vii.
Internetsupervisor.com
Meeting attendees:
Sue Hester
Recording Secretary, BDCA